Thank you for this page. I'm a 26yo mom to two girls. With my first (she's 3 now) I was just starting college and couldn't continue with the pain and morning sickness. I would have aborted but I figured I have a lot of knowledge an neat places I've been that I could pass on so why not. I'm asexual so reproduction itself was more to make my husband more fulfilled, he's a great dad. I found out I was pregnant with #2 when I was getting my physical and about to get my vaccinations to be a paramedic. You can't lift a full grown person onto a stretcher or drive an ambulance while pregnant. Now we're 2 kids deep, living in poverty (which is new to me, I give up my dinner so my toddler can eat) and I feel bad for thinking that if I had just stayed childless then maybe I would have been able to accomplish the things I wanted to do. I wanted to study medicine, instead I'm a stay at home mom